I don’t think so.
But it seems to be something that a lot of men are saying, on and off-line.
Basically the idea goes that men (except for macho jerks) aren’t allowed to talk about what it means to be a man, unless it’s in relation to women’s issues/considerations.
I like to think more in terms of individual personhood, but acknowledge larger cultural norms and patterns. I don’t really see any good for anyone in victim status, because I believe that everyone benefits from engagement and empowerment if they are willing to allow others to do the same.